Christmas is a special time for Filipinos. It’s the season when families come together, share delicious food, and celebrate the love they have for one another. For many, it’s the happiest time of the year. But for millions of Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs), Christmas often feels bittersweet.
If you’re one of those spending Christmas far from home, we know how tough it can be. You work so hard in a foreign country, dreaming of a better life for your family. But being away from them, especially during the holidays, makes your sacrifices feel heavier.
This is a letter for you – a message of hope and love as you spend another Christmas far from the people you hold dear.
The Weight of Sacrifice
Leaving your family behind to work abroad isn’t easy. You miss the laughter during noche buena, the warmth of your children’s hugs, and the joy of seeing your loved ones open the gifts you’ve worked so hard to send.
But your sacrifice isn’t for nothing. You’ve chosen to be away so you can give your family a brighter future. The money you send home pays for their education, food, and medical needs. You’ve made their lives better, even if it means missing out on moments that matter most to you.
You’re not just a worker; you’re a hero to your family.
Finding Comfort in Small Things
Even if you’re far from home, there are ways to make Christmas special:
- Connect Virtually. Technology makes it easier to stay close to your loved ones. Schedule a video call during noche buena so you can celebrate together, even if it’s only online. Seeing their faces and hearing their laughter can lift your spirits.
- Create Your Own Celebration. If you’re living with other Filipinos, plan a small Christmas party. Cook traditional Filipino dishes, sing karaoke, and decorate your space with a simple parol. These small things can make you feel closer to home.
- Share Stories and Traditions. Share Filipino Christmas traditions with your colleagues or friends in the country where you work. Teaching others about our culture can make you feel proud and connected to your roots.
- Write Letters. If you’re unable to send gifts this year, a heartfelt letter to your family can mean just as much. Tell them how much you miss and love them. Words can be a powerful way to bridge the distance.
- Take Care of Yourself. Remember, it’s okay to feel sad, but don’t let it overwhelm you. Go out for a walk, treat yourself to a nice meal, or pray for strength. Taking care of your emotional well-being is just as important as providing for your family.
Look Ahead with Hope
Christmas may be lonely this year, but it won’t be like this forever. Keep in mind that your sacrifices are temporary. One day, you’ll go home and celebrate Christmas with your family again. The reunion will be sweeter because of everything you’ve gone through to make it happen.
Whenever you feel down, remember why you’re doing this. Your family loves you deeply, and they’re incredibly proud of your hard work and dedication. Every video call, every balikbayan box, and every peso you send home is a reminder of your unwavering love for them.
A Special Message
To every OFW spending Christmas far from home: You are not alone. There are many like you who understand your struggles and share your dreams. This Christmas, let the spirit of love, hope, and gratitude fill your heart. Celebrate the small wins and take comfort in knowing that your sacrifices make a big difference in the lives of those you love.
Maligayang Pasko, kabayan. Hold on to hope, and remember that no matter how far you are, your heart is always with your family.
